If you’ve recently been laid off, let me say this first: it really, really sucks. I’ve been laid off before. I remember the mix of thoughts that hit me:   Was I not good enough?   Did I miss something?   Is this a sign it’s time to move on, or just awful timing? There’s shock. Relief. Fear. Anger. A weird calm. Sometimes all in the same hour. And then the bigger questions show up, usually at 2 a.m.   What about money?   Will I find something else?   Is the job market terrible